"UNLUCKY IN LOVE" THERAPY

WHY DOESN'T THIS EVER WORK OUT FOR ME?

Maybe you notice you date the same types of people over and over and constantly find yourself in similar relationships.

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Finding true, drama-free love may even feel hopeless to you at this point. Well, I am happy you are here. You are one of my favorite types of clients to work with.I specialize in helping people who feel unloved or unworthy of love find exactly that. I am here to tell you what you want is not a pipe dream.

HOW DOES THIS WORK?

Well, the truth is it's an inside job. It starts with you. That doesn't mean you have to go it alone. That's what I'm here for. I will help guide you through this journey.

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Walls Keep out Good People, Too.

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I begin by exploring what barriers you have in place and helping you understand which are helpful and which are taking you away from your goal. A lot of what we do to protect ourselves from other people hurting us again works too well. We have to first be open to others to find love.

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"We accept the love we think we deserve." The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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When you work with me, a very important element we will look at is self-esteem. After a long time of struggling to find genuine connection, it is easy to start to view yourself as unworthy of the love you want. The kicker is, you teach people how to treat you by two things: 1) How you treat yourself, and 2) What you allow from others (boundaries).